How to Beat the Loneliness and Finding Love for the Holidays


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By Top10BstDatingSitesStaff

No one likes being single over the holiday period, and when you’re looking for a Christian match, it can be even more difficult. Christmas time is all about being with your family and church, sharing similar values together and looking towards a hopeful future. This can seem a bit pointless when you’re not part of a couple, especially when it feels like all around you are happily paired up.

Research has shown that “only 5% of single Christians date often, even among people actively seeking a marriage partner” and that some groups of singles feel “church is not a good place for single people.”

But online dating has the answer. There are thousands of Christian singles out there, and the best dating websites can lead you straight to them. Your only decision is which one to choose!

Niche Dating Websites

One option is to go straight to a niche religious dating website such as . Here you will find a completely Christian pool of singles. Other plusses of a website like this are additional Christian features such as the Christian Mingle prayer wall and daily bible verses, and the community feel which you will recognise from the best churches, everyone really is ‘in it together’. You are likely to make a lot of great friends on a site like this.

On the other hand, you are narrowing down your search criteria to strictly Christian, and a survey of 3,000 Christian singles has recently found that up to 42% would consider marrying outside the faith. You will also find that specifically religious dating websites may have a smaller pool of singles than some of the more mainstream choices. Lastly, if you are looking for marriage and long term commitment, you might not find that everyone on a Christian dating site wants the same thing as you. Some may be there for companionship or friendship, or perhaps even a more casual relationship.

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Compatibility Dating Websites

Another option is to choose a website known for it’s commitment minded philosophy. eHarmony is a great example of this. They boast that “542 people get married a day because of eHarmony, that’s almost 5% of US marriages.” With in-depth personality profiling and a patented relationship predictor quiz on sign up, you are unlikely to find anyone commitment shy on the site.

The downsides to this choice are that you are jumping into a pool of singles which is not only Christian, so while they are likely to be ready for a long-term relationship leading towards marriage, they may not share all your religious or traditional values. eHarmony makes every effort to counter this by including religious questions in their questionnaire and matching users based on family values, tradition and spirituality as well as their other personality traits and beliefs.

Another great choice in terms of compatibility websites if you’re looking for a long term commitment is EliteSingles which tends to attract more professional singles, narrowing the hunt down still further.

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Broader Dating Websites

Of course, not all committed Christians are ready for marriage and happily ever after. Where compatibility sites may feel like too much pressure, and Christian dating sites might narrow the search too much, there are plenty of great choices which fill the gaps. Match is the forefather of online dating for good reason, and offers the largest userbase of singles, all looking for different kinds of relationships with every type of person out there.

You can state from the outset how important your religion is to you, and simply start chatting to other users and see what clicks. This is a great way to start something new without putting too much importance on it from the outset, and still find a way to meet new people who share your views and beliefs. Websites like Match and Zoosk also offer personality quizzes and compatibility questionnaires within the site to find your ideal match within their millions of members.

Making the Right Choice

Whether you’re looking for a broad dating website with millions of users, a niche dating choice with only Christian singles, or a compatibility website which attracts users looking for long term commitment and marriage, there is simply no need to be lonely during the holidays or any other time. Get started today, and you never know who you will be bringing home to introduce to your family and your church by this time next Christmas.

Need more help with navigating online as a Christian? Read more dating tips for Christian singles.


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