How to Plan the Perfect First Online Date


The perfect first dateBy Top10BestDatingSites Staff

Online dating involves a few different stages. You pick a site, set up a page, send a few messages to people with interesting profiles, and wait for others to do the same for you. The next step is making that first connection with someone that you can’t wait to meet in person. Planning your very first date through an online dating site is intimidating and exciting at the same time. Following a few simple tips can help you stay calm and plan an unforgettable date that both of you will love.

Going on a date that involves something both of you truly enjoy can make it easier to instantly connect with each other even if you later decide that you are better off as friends. Sharing an experience both of you are interested in also makes it easier to talk without getting nervous.

Think Outside the Box

When most online daters set up their first dates, they tend to stick with traditional choices like movies, restaurants, bars and coffee shops. While there is nothing wrong with choosing dinner for your first date, there is nothing memorable or special about it either. Planning an unusual first date is the perfect way to break the ice because it gives both of you something to talk about besides yourselves. Cooking courses, dance classes, interesting tours and art exhibitions are all great ideas if you want to impress your date and plan an unforgettable day.

Know What to Wear

When it comes to your first online date, you need to dress to impress but not to intimidate. Pick an outfit that accentuates your best features but fits the type of date you are going on. Make sure that both of you are on the same page. Being too underdressed or overdressed can make you feel self-conscious and out of place.

Forget Rehearsing

One of the biggest mistakes people make when planning their first online date is overthinking it. Don’t plan how you are going to sit, talk or move. Having your questions and observations prepared ahead of time is tempting because it makes you feel in control, but it can seriously backfire. Intentionally acting a certain way or asking questions that you came up with at home can make you seem stiff and scripted. Be natural and be yourself. If your date is the right one for you, your conversation should flow without a problem.


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The Top 10 Best Dating Sites staff are your guides to the world of online dating websites and services. The team navigates the world of online dating and share their findings to help readers find online dating success. Our team includes dating experts Laurel House, Ken Solin, James Preece, Erika Ettin, Nida Sea, Vanae Tran, Carmelia Ray and many more talented writers. Top 10 Best Dating Sites staff have extensive first-hand experience in: signing up for and using various online dating sites; researching the ever-growing online dating market; and copywriting and editing for various online and print publications about online dating.


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